How Coaching Works
We engage in friendly conversation. You explain your challenges and we give you new patterns to reduce problems. We help you set realistic goals and give you tools to reach them. Goals may include:
- Quality time together
- Better communication
- Deeper intimacy
- Children/discipling
- More appreciation
- Less Criticism
You learn how to uncover the true cause for frustration. The following example shows how a couple can misread each other and get tripped by the issues.
Alana complained, “Arden never listens to me,” and compensated by over communicating. We helped Alana soften the problem immediately by redirecting her patterns. Next, we found the source of her cry to be heard. Redirecting her focus calmed her insecurity and the demands on her husband. Then we helped Arden.
Arden recoiled at “Alana’s nagging.” We uncovered his dread of criticism and his apprehension evaporated. By removing underlying issues Alana and Arden better connect as husband and wife. She no longer feels driven to get attention, he no longer feels nagged.
No blame game! We advance your marriage by uncovering root issues to stop blame and create a team. Each session is 60-75 minutes. Now let’s look at two coaching levels.
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