Why men dislike Valentine’s Day. And How to Change It

Surveys show that Valentine’s Day is the most disliked holiday by men. Here’s why.

Someone tells you that a million dollar treasure is hidden on Manhattan island and says, “Go find it.” The task would be daunting. That’s how it is for men and Valentine’s Day.  Now imagine someone giving you a detailed map to the treasure.

Men are romantic but the answer to, “What do you want to do on Valentine’s Day?” can seriously derail him. If you say, “Oh, anything is fine.” it is like the treasure without the map. Not knowing what to do is why many men dislike Valentine’s Day.

Next Valentine’s Day be specific. Tell him exactly what would make you happy. Say exactly what you want. Name the restaurant, the walk, the movie, the place, everything. But shouldn’t he know?

Men are target orientated and need the map. It does not mean he loves you less, only that he does not do well with hints. He wants to provide for you, but he also hates failure.  Hit and miss does not work or him.  Choosing a restaurant that might not please you is something he wants to avoid.

So if he asks, kindly tell him what would make you very happy and watch him go. You will ignite his need to provide and make you happy.

Categories Articles, Marriage Tips | Tags: , , | Posted on February 10, 2013

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